- estrange
- estrange, alienate, disaffect, wean are comparable when meaning to cause one to break a bond or tie of affection or loyalty.Estrange implies separation with consequent indifference or hostility; alienate may or may not suggest actual separation, but it does imply loss of affection or interest or withdrawal of support and often connotes a diversion of that affection or interest to another object{
a little knowledge often estranges men from religion, a deeper knowledge brings them back to it— Inge
}{the colossal impudence of his comment on his former and now alienated associate— Lucas
}Estrange is preferable when the indifference or hostility is mutual, alienate when the blame can be fixed on one person or on a third person{Mr. and Mrs. Brown have been estranged for a year
}{she alienated him by her extravagance
}{his affections were alienated by another woman
}Disaffect is more often used with reference to groups from whom loyalty is expected or demanded; it stresses such effects of alienation without separation as unrest, discontent, or rebellion{the workers were disaffected by paid agitators
}{the disloyalists tried to disaffect the militia, preaching treason— Bowers
}Wean implies separation from something which has a strong hold on one or on which one depends in the manner of a nursling on its mother. Unlike the other words, it often suggests merit rather than fault in the person who breaks the bond{wean a person from a bad habit
}{to wean your minds from hankering after false Germanic standards— Quiller— Couch
}{low prices of movies may have weaned large sections of the public away from the legitimate theater— Messenger
}Analogous words: *separate, part, divide, sunder, sever, divorceAntonyms: reconcile
New Dictionary of Synonyms. 2014.